Modern Day Prince

What would it take to challenge the men of today to step up and be different?

I guess we should start with asking what a woman, whose life is surrendered to God, want for a future husband. Eric Ludy said that a true modern day prince would be inspired with the words of his princess.  A Christian woman sees a lot of men who go to church yet don’t carry the aroma of Christ in him. If you are a guy and you want to be married to a woman who's life is set apart for God, then be aware of what kind of man she wants to marry.

She prays for a leader. She doesn't look for someone who is perfect but she looks at the direction of his life. She wants a man who wouldn't steal her heart from her First Love but rather lead her on to the right direction towards Him.

She prays for a hard working man. She wants someone who is willing to sacrifice a comfortable life for the sake of bringing the Good News to others. She wants a busy man who would stay up late at night if needed so he can finish any task that the Lord has called him up to do.

She wants a man who also works hard to take care of the family.

She prays for a man who knows his priorities in life and is committed to it.

She doesn't want her man to make her, his number one priority in life. If God is not number one in his life then she thinks that he is not worth the wait. A man who puts God first knows where to direct his future family in terms of living a life worthy of the Kingdom.

She prays for a man who Fears the Lord and obeys His commands. Obedience is seen in the way he lives his life and not only on what comes out of his mouth.

She looks at how he treats others not only in her presence but also in her absence.

She believes that if a man has a great love for the Lord, she would also be loved just as Christ loved the church.

She prays for a man who knows his role as a man and who understands that women are wired differently.

She want to be pursued and rescued and not the other way around.

She wants a guy who would be patient enough to listen to her when they talk.

She wants a man who treats her as an equal and does not look down on her as inferior.

She may be too emotional at times and that's why Peter said that men should be more understanding of women.

She embraced God's design and it would be a harmonious and exciting adventure if a man knows that he is dealing with a woman who has high hopes on him.

She prays for a respectable man whom others respect not because he is powerful and authoritative, but because of the choices he makes in his life that deserves respect.

She wants a man whose mere presence encourages her to cultivate a deeper intimacy with God.

She prays for a man who has an eternal perspective. A man who knows that his life on earth is temporary and thus, finds his security in the arms of God.

Knowing his role as a citizen of God's kingdom, he would not invest on the things of this world but on those that matter in eternity according to what the Lord has given him.

She prays for a man who would have the courage to let her know that she is only number two in his life because God is and will always be number one in his life no matter what. With this in mind, he shouldn’t forget that women want to be loved as well. That's why they also want a man who has a deep understanding of the meaning of love.

I pray this would encourage men of all ages to think about their lives and what a woman of God is praying for if God will allow her to marry.

Get busy in doing what God has called you to do not only because she won't get attracted to a guy who is more concerned with finding a mate than working hard for the sake of others, but more importantly because this is what God asks of you.

P.S. Don’t try to do these things just to get a girl to like you. She won't be flattered at all.

~ Leslie Grace Vergara, Training Coordinator and Volunteer Specialist

  • Winter Harmony

    Nice one Miss Anon. 🙂

  • Kaye Mongado

    Amen. 🙂

  • joy

    very true 🙂

  • Christ

    P.S. Don’t try to do these things just to get a girl to like you. She won’t be flattered at all. <-- why should we do it then in the first place? This world is nothing but hedonism, clinging to the last vestiges of good is nothing but a fools dream.

  • Alexander Anderson

    a way for a man to attract a woman is by not being such too physical person but should learn to clearly look at the spiritual part of living as well. she wants to clear it further that she wants a man, a real man.

    god-given man that is.
    that is why to be attracted to woman, you have to be god-given man

  • Coffee Princes

    you have to wait for the right person and for God's answered prayer

  • Ms. Anonymous

    @Christ: "P.S. Don’t try to do these things just to get a girl to like you. She won’t be flattered at all. " Means that she's looking for someone who loves God sincerely and not just putting his best foot forward because he already knows what the girl is looking for. If he will do it just to get the girl to like him that defeats the purpose.

  • Winter Harmony

    To Christ (who sounds hopeless):
    It may be a fool's dream to you but we cling not to the last vestiges of good. I, for one, have faith in Christ and to Him alone I cling. He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose.

  • Christine Jane Eviota Luib

    🙂

  • Yeina

    So true, , ^_^ thanks for reminding us Miss . . God bless.

  • Divine Grace Marquez

    She prays for a man who knows his priorities in life and is committed to it. -I strongly agree! God must be his number one priority and have deep commitment to Him. Very true to the saying that "If guy is not committed to the Lord, what makes you think he would be committed to you?".

    Great Article! God Bless TLW!

  • xyza de guzman

    🙂 a man after GOD's own heart.

  • kheng

    :)) amen.. very true!

  • amos page

    it is really GOOD TO WAIT. 4 God will give the right one for us. waiting is part of our life since God has a good purpose in due time

  • Martina Brillantes

    Well-said. God bless your heart, Ms Anomymous 🙂

  • Christine D. Rosende

    Thanks 4 the article Ms. Anonymous! .God bless you.

  • jade23

    *She prays for a man who would have the courage to let her know that she is only number two in his life because God is and will always be number one in his life no matter what. With this in mind, he shouldn’t forget that women want to be loved as well. That’s why they also want a man who has a deep understanding of the meaning of love.

    *She want to be pursued and rescued and not the other way around.

    -Girls are God's princesses. God will not give her daughter to a man unless he asks for her hand from HIM.

  • Allan Andrada

    Thank God for sending you to us and serve as an instrument to inspire every man whose hearts are not in the right track. I'll pray that you may continue serving Him through your blogs and that more men, (even women) realize how God works in every relationship. God bless.. 🙂

  • Arman

    Sadly, this applies only for a woman who’s life is set apart for God. There are many who chooses what they like... but at the end is despair. How I wish every women in churches be set apart for God.

  • ,,ang gnda nman ng story,,mron p bng ibang blog?

  • Story remind us that the girl is very sensitive, that's why we need to understand every woman that we love.,

    tama bah?

  • Alvin

    We need to love and understand all the girls because they are very sensitive.,

    tama poh bah?

  • Hi Alvin! Tama, we need to love, understand and respect women

  • arnold

    tama yn,, true love waits tlga,, =) prng ung topic sa love zone ng italk last tuesday,,.. =)

  • Glory Jean

    nice message...! Yes! Tama nga po..
    Dapat if maghanap man tayo ng partner
    sa life piliin natin ung taong mas mahal niya
    first si God b4 everything. ..

  • JHE

    Ohmy I cried. This is absolutely true. God bless you Ms Anonymous. 🙂 True Love Waits, yes. indeed. 😀

  • Jude

    This blog is so encouraging. I heard and visited this site a year ago and so amazed how God directed me to view this again. Continue being a blessing!

    I am praying for you. 🙂

  • Hi. You have a very inspiring blog. Can you create a share* button for twitter and facebook and even to other social media ? ..just to spread the word. I too, wanted to press this in my blog:D

    Reply is very much appreciated thanks!

  • make a love triangle with God.

  • Aaarjhay…

    nice!!

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