I Kissed WAITING Goodbye!

YES! You read the title correctly. I’ve decided that I'm through with waiting. That I would stop this period of nothingness and start pursuing.Β  No more and I say it again no more. Waiting causes so much trouble for me, so much heartache and fear. It's time I remove this things from me instead I will start to pursue. Yes I will start to pursue.


I will pursue to improve my character that the one created for me would not have to suffer my ill attitude, bad temper, sharp tongue, and fits of range.

I will pursue my dreams and ambitions that the one created for me might share in all my accomplishment and she would carry my name with a smile on her face.

I will pursue deeper friendships with those around me that the one created for me would be surrounded by amazing people who cares for me and would eventually care for her as well.

I will pursue accountability that all my actions, words and even my thoughts would be kept in check. That the one created for me would not have to carry all my burden alone.

I will pursue to develop my self that the one created for me would not only be attracted for my character and heart but for everything about me.

I will pursue purity that I would be able to give the one created for me the greatest gift I could give her. (I hope she is doing the same for me)

I will pursue righteousness that I may be right with God and with men. That the one created for me would not have to suffer because of my wrong actions.

I will pursue Holiness, that I would be set apart. Holy before God. That the one created for me would see that I am different. That I am out of this world.

I will stop waiting, stop doing nothing! For the one created for me deserves more than just to be waited upon.

She deserves the best. I will do my best to be the best for her.

I'm through with waiting I have kissed it goodbye.

(Article written by JC YU)

  • jason

    wow ..

  • Eloi

    Wow.. it's amazing how a man could testify like that!! Bro, start pursuing.. you deserve the best!! Good luck!

  • liv

    I wish that I can be like that, so that the one that was created just for me will be bless to have me.. maybe this is being impatient.. how will I meet christian guy if the option is limited? in our church no one is available.. they say that it's wrong to go church hopping or to attend fellowship if your reason is to meet someone with the same faith.. I don't want to make mistakes.. help.. God bless!

  • Hi Liv,

    Thanks for being open to your situation right now.
    Concerning your question, to find the right person God has for us has been a common dilemma if we see things the way we want it.
    Focusing in God will give you a clear view that more than having a futuremate, He desires you to be in an intimate relationship with Him.

    Consider this: Pursuing God is the best relationship you can ever have. To have our futuremate is just a bonus. Kaya hindi issue ang scarcity ng christian guys inside the church. Probably, its our hearts that we need first to settle before Him.


  • Patti

    I call your bluff. =)

  • arlie

    hmmm,, i love that guy who ever you are.. i mean i can't see any guy now that can testify that statement(maybe just a few)

    guys.. i know everybody has their own beliefs but do you think everybody should think about it? its really right though we have our own perception,foe you to disagree in my statement...make sense :]

  • andrea

    yes it's right start persuing!....same situation with u

  • still_waiting

    wow.this is really nice..can i post it to my blog?thanks
    GOD bless.
    i was inspired by this testimony.

  • Hi Still Waiting,

    yes you can post it. Just invite them to visit our site. thanks

  • ancore! paredes

    WAY TO GO! πŸ™‚

  • JC Yu

    Hey Guys,

    Thanks for the comments, I was really encouraged. Sorry I was really busy thats why i only got to check it now. Waiting is hard especially when your doing nothing so i believe its just right that we do something along the way.

    ELOI: Thanks Man!!! I do hope I get the best, and I hope I can also be the best for her. Thats just a simply amazing thought!

    LIV: Don't worry, the guy for you will come. Just keep running, remain faithful. I'm sure got would remain faithful and provide for your every need including relationships.

    FRANCO: Thanks for covering for me πŸ™‚ You ROCK bro!

    ARLIE: Thanks Thanks Thanks. I'm glad you liked my blog. I was just inspired to write it while I was ridding a bus hehehe. So this was the result of my bus ride πŸ™‚

    ANDREA: Thanks for Agreeing πŸ˜€

    STILL_WAITING: Sure post it over and over πŸ˜€ the more people read it the better. Could you also tell me some of the comments of your friends πŸ˜€ heres my email: john_carlo_yu@yahoo.com

    ANCORE! PAREDES: Thanks Man! πŸ˜€

  • sheila

    make sense! bravo! πŸ™‚ this been a blessing and an inspiration. God bless you.

  • Shey

    sana maging ganyan din ako..yeah...nagsasawa na akong magIntay...I'm tired of being alone..wat will I do?I hope I have the strength to continue to go on with life..

    Thanks for inspiring me..God Bless

  • allyzza

    I really like this blog... i have posted it already to my fs blog.. i hope u don't mind?

    I was inspired by this.. because you are right... we have to be perfect for that one person God created just for us.. πŸ™‚

    tnx bro..continue on inspiring young people... πŸ™‚

    God bless... πŸ™‚

  • No problem Allyzza! Just put a link to our site so others can view it from wagmuna.com


  • Adiel

    This post is a wake-up call. Inspiring. I'm posting and linking this blog:)

  • malou

    ako din napawow!can i also post this to my blog?
    ilagay konalang po na sa wagmuna.com galing
    Godbless and more power to your group!

  • M.L.K.M.M.

    this exactly is what i would want my boyfriend to do..
    see,he's more than everything i wanted..
    and i would like to make it up to him..
    but at our present situation,i couldn't..
    that's why i decided to stay away from him.
    di nya kasi maintindihan na magkaiba kami ng sitwasyon..
    and were too young for something like this..
    i just hope he waits for me..
    'coz we both believe that we ARE made for each other..
    the next time we see each other again,
    i hope i can be the woman he deserves to be with.

  • kaei

    u are amazing,man! with that brilliant mind,excellent thought and pure heart..u really deserve nothing but the best! God bless You and continue adding spice in this link-u inspire people!

  • marla

    aww. :]]
    Praise God.
    i just wanna share something. i'am very weak when it comes to my "heart thing". and i really find it hard to let go of the one i desire and let God do his "thing" on us. but now, i'am trying HARDER to make my heart pure and maybe i will "KiSS WAiTiNG GOODBYE" :]] i'am so blessed with article. God bless you πŸ™‚

  • JC YU

    WOW!!! I never thouht that a simple article birth from a bus ride on the way home would create such a response. I hope that i could also be true to the things i have written as it is truly difficult to do such things.

    Sheila: Bravo indeed πŸ˜€ i'm glad you we're blessed

    Shey: It's all in a process, even i am still having difficulty in pursuing πŸ™‚ still i push through. I will be praying for you.

    Allyzza: Thanks. I hope more people read the article and be inspired. I hope that i would go beyond inspiration and really cause action πŸ™‚

    Adiel: Go ahead!!! πŸ˜€ I'm really glad you liked it.

    Malou: WOW! That's also my reaction the first time i read through the article. hehehehe. I was just really inspired during that time.

    MLKMM: I hope that he would not only wait for you but would pursue to improve himself and you aswell to improve yourself.

    Marla: Most of us really have a hard time dealing with the heart. don't worry your not alone πŸ˜€ Trust God i'm sure He will take care of you.

  • Rei

    Wow, thank you! I'm 29 and waiting. NBSB ako and people kept on asking me on why I never had a boyfriend or why I never married. Some are shocked that I'm still a virgin. It's annoying at times and depressing. A few think I'm too choosy especially after I read Bo Sanchez's How to Find Your One True Love.

    I want to meet more people and also have a personal relationship with God. When I was in the call center, contact was limited and the men were really few (either they're married or gay or extreme womanizers).

    I already quit my job a few months ago. I want to meet other Christian singles but I don't know where to start.

    But it won't be easy, especially remaining pure and also pursuing a relationship with God because of persecution (not the being stoned to death type) and discrimination.

  • Rei

    P.S. Can I post this in my LJ blog?

  • No problem Rei.

    Just post a link to our site. That would be nice

  • Hi Rei,

    If you'd like you can volunteer with us. email barkadahan@wagmuna.com tell something about yourself and the skills you can contribute.


  • Rei

    I already sent an email and got a reply from Mr. Derek Ross. I am waiting on what I should be asked to do next though.

  • arhen

    Praise God.!
    ..that was good bro'..
    hindi ako mkapaniwala, I mean syempre sa ganitong kalagayan/sitwasyon ng ating lipunan,kilala ang mga guys na malakas at di nagpapakita ng anong emotion..
    and I salute you for doing what you know is right..
    always put God first and everything will follow..
    Mathew 6:33
    "Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all this things shall be added unto you.."

    -Lagi mong panghawakan ang mga Pangako ni Lord..
    God cares..even into our relationships/ Love life..


  • victoria

    it makes sense..."I will pursue righteousness that I may be right with God and with men. That the one created for me would not have to suffer because of my wrong actions." I LOVE THIS ONE! good job!

  • fritzdae=))

    when i was reading this section I was very blessed c0z it helps me a lot to have more patient w8ng 4 the will of GOD. well, although I'm only 16 years of age, I am starting praying 4 the right person which is the will of God.

    and I was praying 4 one person whom I admire so much. What I mean is that I am giving up all to the Lord, all my plans. and I Believed that ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE THROUGH CHRIST!

    I like this boy not just because of his LOOKS, but I like him c0z, I know that he's in the right path. And I like him c0z he awe the Lord so much!

    he's a good example to all of us!

    hE's 19 yrs old now and he's taking up Mechanical Engineering at the Lyceum Batangas.

    although he's too busy with his study, he's always giving his 100% energy to the Lord!

    He's a leader in the young people ministry in their church.

    He commit his life serving with the Lord!



    join me in prayer!



  • Hi fritzdae,

    I do pray that you'll ask God for his will. And once it is revealed, our self desires are taken out and we follow him.


  • marla

    Aw :3 I wanted to volunteer kaso I think I'm too young πŸ™‚

  • Iane


  • jeff

    wow. that was inspiring!;)

    YES!!! i will also start pursuing.

  • shey

    Thanks JC YU!

    I hope I could still wait..I'm still have a hard time thinking why until now I'm still single..I know that everything happens for a reason..and even though my heart is not at peace, I'll just continue to pray for everything πŸ™‚

  • Geraldine Longhay

    more power!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Cedric

    Man, I wonder when does one know when he has found the ONE created for him :\, JC YU, may you live in harmony with the rest of your lifetime with the woman God has paired up with you ^_^, cheers! Is it okay if I post this blog and include the link directing back here? I believe my buddies SHOULD see this.

  • jannoh

    yes i'll start pursuing..thanks for the site its a great help.

  • Sure Cedric! Just put a link to our site...

  • JC Yu

    Wow! I cannot believe the responses people continue to give in this simple article. I am blessed and encouraged to read comments that were inspired to also live and pursue. My hearts desire is that we would truly be able to stand up and to pursue. Its really hard and I have to say it is still a daily battle for me. let us continue to pray for each other.

    BTW i heard that the article is widely spreading in the web. i would also like to read comments from your friends pls do let me know. you can add me up at multiply: jcyuthepro.multiply.com

    πŸ˜€ Praying for the power and the will to pursue πŸ™‚

  • β™₯_”quennax_”β™₯

    ,hemmm low..
    tnx coz ive learn a lot of knowlegde from this website..hope marami pang youth ang magising sa ka22hanan,na "love is not just a game.".tnx poh tlaga. Godbless!!....

  • -ella-

    Me too.. Can i post it to my fb? Hehe..

  • Ella

    I salute you man! for having a courage to wrote this and let everyone know.. Yes indeed, we need to PURSUE our godly character so we could be righteous not only in the sight of man but most important in the sight of our lord god..

    Im 28yrs of age and im a certified NBSB..Ü sometimes i used to think and asked god why until now i dont have a bf or get into a romantic relationship like my other friends do. A lot of people (officem8, friends, relatives, even churchm8!) kept on asking why im still single. Sometimes its kinda pressuring but i believe that my lord god has something in stored for me. I have faith that in his perfect time, Hes going to reveal whos the best for me..

    So for the young pipz out there keep pursuing the cleanliness and holiness of our mind, body and soul. That in gods due time hes going to reward you whats best for you..Ü


  • Go Ahead Ella. Just give a link to our site upon posting it.

  • lhey

    I was amazed!! =) this is a good encouragement for many youth just like me...
    I will pursue Holiness, that I would be set apart. Holy before God. That the one created for me would see that I am different. That I am out of this world."

    let me share this to others.. =) Godbless..

  • bubbles

    this helps me a lot. It made me realized that I am not OF this world, I am not FROM this world. I AM from Christ, I AM a Christian.

  • raymond

    Amazing!! GOD BLESS you JC!
    Helped me realize a lot of things!

  • princess

    πŸ™‚ nice.. kung ako sya.. mahal na kita.. thanks for sharing... Godbless.. continue waiting.. joke.. continue pursuing πŸ™‚ she really deserves you πŸ™‚

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