Just got pregnant…

An email from a friend...

Maaga akong nagka-baby kasi hindi ko pinahalagahan ang sarili ko,hanggang ngayon hindi ko maintindihan kung bakit nangyari sa akin ang lahat. Hanggang ngayon, marami pa rin akong tanong na hindi nasasagot, mabuti nalang nakita ko itong website na to para mayron na akong masasabihan ng problema na sa tingin ko ay may maayos na maisasagot sa akin...Kasi hindi ko naman masabi sa ibang tao ang lahat ng nasa isip ko ksi alm ko hndi nila ako maiintindihan dahil hnd nla alm ang pinagdadaanan ko....

Maraming sakit sa puso ko na ayaw kong sabihin sa mga nakakakilala sa akin kya ngayon mlakas ang loob ko na magsabi ng nararamdaman ko..sana mabigyan ninyo ako ng makakausap... May pangarap naman ako sa buhay, hindi nman ako pariwara dahil nag aaral naman ako ng mabuti kaya lang pansamantalang natigil ang pag-abot ko sa pangarap ko..

Hindi ko alam kung kanino ibabaling ang sisi dahil minsan iniisip ng ibang tao na ngrerebelde ako kya ko ginawa yon..pero pra s akin,ginusto ko lang naman na maramdaman ang pagmamahal ng isang lalaki na hindi ko mramdaman sa papa ko..kya lagi akong ng boboyfriend noon..yan ang nerealize ko nung nanganak nko..marami akong na-realize at natutunan...

Sana hindi ako nagmadali!

Watch out for the 2nd part of this blog wherein we will share with you more about this very critically crucial topic especially here in our country....

  • Jernel Singh A. Kumar

    Alam mo Miss, madami kagaya mo ngyaon at yung iba eh papunta palang dyan sa narating mong pagkakamali, Hopefully yung naging pagkakamali mo eh maitama mo sa buhay ng ibang tao, hindi pa naman katapusan ng mundo eh, blessing ang baby na iyan ingatan mo sarili mo ha, tsaka pwede mupa maisalba yung ibang kabataan na gaya natin na gagawa nadin ng mga ganyang bagay. God Bless You Miss, totoo yan mga Bro. and Sis. If I were you seek the Holy Spirit kahit bata pa tayo then ang isa sa bunga ng Holy Spirit is SELF-CONTROL. God Bless to all youths!!!

  • yhab

    ahhmmm....
    kea muh yan!!!...
    i know that GOD is with you....
    tsaka evrythng happens 4 a reason....
    and GOD allow that to happen to you....
    hndi p nmn huli ung lahat eh...remember that our GOD is God of second chances....
    me mgndang plano p rin Xa sau....

    GODBLESS....

  • ana rose

    Madame ng cases na ganyan pro kokonti lng ang nakakaalam na Jesus is a God of chances. Ur choice ur future, so pg-nagkamali ka pde mo pang itama by the help of our God. The Lord wil not give u a problem that u can't solve, He believes in you... God gave us a free will to decide for our self, so kng titignan mo ang prob mo as negative u'll end up in negative result, "ur past is past but you can make ur future better if u'll decide to ryt the wrong" kng titignan mo naman xa in positive way "everything has a purpose" pdeng ibinigay ni Lord yan sau dahl darating ung time na magiging counselor ka sa isang youth na same situaion as yours, so makakatulong ka sa iba. Kng ang iniicp mo naman eh wala ng magmamahal sau ng totoo, God is there for you. In God's tym He will reveal His will for u, the guy that will love u whatever ur past is. Just focus on God and eveything will be ok. Know what? No one can satisfy the love ur looking for xcept Jesus. He proved it in my life. We are made for Christ and not for others so kaht anong hanap mo ng love sa iba magiging empty ka pa dn. Just continue to pray kc c Lord lang ang makaakintindi ng nararamdamam mo more than anyone else kc xa ang creator natin. Remember that prayer is not just talking to somebody, praying is talking to a God who can change all situation. Just trust Him. You are loved and special in God's eye...

  • SaLy

    i can share with your pain...kaso sa akin medyo complicated din...i'm 23and i have a 7 mos old baby boy, im 2 mos pregnant again...would you believed na naging kami ng daddy nya for just a month after i broke up with my boyfriend for almost 5 years.i am the eldest in the family,a "goody-goody type" as my churchmates,friends and officemates would say.they never have thought na sa akin mangyayari yun.i usually feel sad when i realize that i have hurt so many people,my parents,my siblings and even the man i have spent almost 5 years of praying and dreaming for our future together with God.Ngayon I'm married to a person 5 years ahead of me. Parang nangangapa pa din ako sa relationship namin, i can't relate to him things that interests me.Madalas kasi pagod na siya from work and parang may barrier p rin between us.We stay with his parents dahil sobrang love siya ng mama nya.Sometimes, i just cry, i missed my old life.But then everytime I feel down, God makes me realize that everything has a reason. And that He has given this new family for me to love. Just cheer up and feel free to share your thoughts with me. God bless...

  • Mhaxene

    Sis..don't be sad..alway smile pra laging mganda..lucky ang baby to have a mother like you..
    it's a blessing..it was given for a reason..
    God knows how strong you are to handle that kind of situation..He knows you can make it!
    Just ensure the happiness of bearing a wonderful gift sent to you..
    Godbless:)

  • ernz23

    Hey! Cheer up coz
    My Father loves you!!!
    Yes, he really loves you!
    My heavenly Father loves you as He loves me too and others too...
    your earthly father may not show that he loves you
    but My Father loves you that he did gave His only Son Jesus to die in place of you!
    Isn't that a great love... He did that for me and for you also!
    My Father loves you and He wants you to be his daughter also, He wants that you call him your Father also coz He loves you so much!
    He sees you now... He is looking at you now and your baby!
    Smile coz my Father loves you as Jesus loves you too!

  • mich

    hi.. u know meon pang ngmamahal sayu.. u can du it.. en i blieve God has a purpose....go girl kyah mu yan!! God is olweisz der at ur syd!! never knyang inwan!! juz pray!! we love yu!! GOD blesz!!

  • i think things happen for a purpose.

    god allowed trials to triumph us in our own ways.

  • i understand ur situation .. aq din maaga nag ka baby.. dahil sa pagrerebelde.. but after i gave birth to my son.. ive realized evrything.. kung minsan ka ng nadapa it doesnt mean the next situation will be the same.. u have to change and sarili mu lang ang makakatulong sau kung paano.. life goes on.. bumangon ka sa pagkadapa mu and do whats right for your life.. hindi sagot ang isang mali sa isa pang pagkakamali.. changes and experience make a person better and more mature.. God bless u ..

  • leonardo

    Ang kailangan mo lang gawin ngayon ay alagaan at mahalin mo ang iyong anak at gabayan ang iyong anak sa paglaki niya. Ang nangyari ay nangyari na hindi na maibabalik pa iyon. Basta huwag na ulitin pa ang nagawa pagkakamali. Learn na lang at mamuhay na may pagmamahal sa anak mo.

  • True Love Waits is committed to impacting youth by teaching them to be
    pure in heart which will lead them to make the right choices—especially in the issue of sexual abstinence until marriage.

    True Love Waits speaks in large groups and following it, they train core
    leaders with TLW workshop lessons.

    Get full details on how you can invite us to your church, school or barangay > CLICK HERE

CONTACT US
Thanks for coming here. The staff at True Love Waits realize the courage it took for you to get this far. Is the sin in your life a burden for you? Actually, that's good news. If the mistakes that you are making cause you a heaviness, then be glad because Jesus says to you "Rest in me". We've placed this tab here because year after year, people have emailed us with the subject line "I NEED HELP". You are not alone. Our staff are dedicated to pray for you and listen to the things in your life that have burdened you. We provide for those who find themselves struggling with the effects of sin a safe place to walk honestly in loving community and receive God's truth in addressing life's difficulties.

Let us know how we can help you by filling out the information below:
* we hate spam and never share your details.
Thank You. We will contact you as soon as possible.
Relationships
INVITE US
True Love Waits is committed to impacting youth by teaching them to be
pure in heart which will lead them to make the right choices—especially in the issue of sexual abstinence until marriage.
True Love Waits speaks in large groups and following it, they train core leaders with TLW workshop lessons. Get full details on how you can invite us to your church, school or barangay,